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Don't Merely Send in a Proxy to do Good on Your Behalf

9/16/2009

 
I'm a very strong advocate  for limited government (as anyone reading this blog should know by now), but that doesn't mean that I'm not compassionate or that I care only about myself. In fact, I've been learning more and more about selflessness since having a baby and I'm fairly confident that I care about the needs of other people to the point where I'm willing to donate time/money to making sure other people are doing life well (whatever that means for them).

As a Christian, I believe that we should look out for the poor, the needy, the downtrodden- but when I say "we" I don't mean the government. I mean you and I. Yes, whoever you are reading this right now, I mean that you and I have the responsibility to make a difference in other people's lives.

The best healthcare reform I've ever experienced was when my friend Jamie put together a small task force of friends who held a garage sale and donated some of their own money in order to help us pay for some unexpected medical expenses.

And likewise, it's when I've been the one who's served a meal to families staying at the Ronald McDonald House, or helped a friend move into a new apartment, or donated some shoes to kid in the Dominican Republic, or shucked corn for a church potluck, that a real difference has been made. Not only in the lives of those whom I've served, but in me, too.

I'm better because of giving.

Some friends of mine began a ministry called Home Sweet Homeless where they head downtown once or twice a month and share a meal or a movie with the homeless in Orlando. They don't just give them cash or food- they spend time with them and learn about their stories and give them a chance to feel like a cared for human being.

These guys (and girls) aren't waiting to send in a government proxy that's going to lend a helping hand to their friends. They aren't just legislating compassion. They're out there BEING compassion.

Whatever ends up happening with healthcare and Wall Street and banking and the Federal Reserve- I'd encourage you not to miss out on the personal, individual benefits of serving the community. Government programs don't have the personal touch that a friend coming along side us does.

So rather than send in a proxy that will take care of social justice- take the initiative to make social justice happen right now. You don't need Barack Obama, Ron Paul, or Bono in order to do good for those around you. You can be the Change that you've been waiting for.
Jamie Kite link
9/16/2009 01:13:24 am

This post made me tear up for some reason. It's been months since I thought about the medical expenses. But, coincidentally, I just told my house church this week about the post-it notes on the wall at Status, and how it was the first time I actually saw the enormity of the needs in the community. I hadn't thought about it in the longest time. It made me realize how much those in the church (little c, but not naming names) pretend to have it all together. But we are there because we need redemption, because we don't have it together. And the Church (big c) should be known by its love, which looks a lot like meeting the needs you described above -- for those inside and outside the walls of the church. If only.

Nathan link
9/16/2009 01:18:19 am

You were definitely instrumental in meeting our needs! I wish that the church ALWAYS looked like it did the month after that Post-It note service at Status!

Nathan link
9/16/2009 01:39:52 am

It's not just "government" proxies I'm concerned with, either.

We send "proxies" all the time as communities of faith. I'm really concerned when religious people merely give money to their organization's "missions fund" so they can send a proxy evangalist or give to their organization's "charity fund" so that they can be "excused" from hanging out with the homeless.

It's very tempting to merely send someone else to do good on our behalf. Now, I'm not saying that it's WRONG to send someone on our behalf, but it doesn't mean that we're excused from doing good merely because we've funded the good of another person.

I can't pay/send a surrogate to hug my wife every day. It's only meaningful when I'm the one who gives her a hug.

In the same way, I'd encourage you to donate your own skills and abilities in the service of others. Bake a meal. Serve Soup. Build a house. Mentor a child. Embrace your family.

Do good, rather than merely paying for others to do good.


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    Nathan Key likes to think about faith and philosophy and talk about it with others. He lives with his family in New Hampshire. He doesn't always refer to himself in the third person.

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